How to Be the Best Bridesmaid

posted by Gurki B on 4 Dec 2014 0 Comments

Let’s make one thing perfectly clear, being a bridesmaid is a great honor and should be taken seriously.

How to be the best bridesmaid

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It’s rare for a bride to choose whoever to be by her side during the wedding and you should make sure you help her plan her dream wedding.

You want to show your friend that you are grateful that she chose you over all her friends, after all she did put her trust in you.

There are simple dos and don’ts every bridesmaid should follow so that she doesn’t embarrass herself or even worse put the damper on the most important day of her friends life.

The Bachelorette Party

Remember one thing this is her party so if you are not sure what she would like ask her. Get all the bridesmaids, especially the maid of honour, and brain storm.

The Bachelorette Party

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First off never do anything last minute you need to plan ahead: set the date, make the guest list, decide on a theme, get the gifts. For a party to be successful there needs to be enthusiasm so it’s a good idea to get everyone hyped up.

You can gather the guests and get ready together, go online to find ideas, wedding supplies and get bridal party clothes, if you go for a theme try to supply the guests with the accessories.

Play the hostess, don’t let anybody sit in the corner go and talk to them making them feel at ease and soon they will join the fun. The party will be a success if everybody has a good time.

Offer a Helping Hand

Floral Arrangements and Wedding Decorations

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Weddings are stressful and the bride need all the help she can get. Let her know she can count on you for anything; the guest list, floral arrangements, decorations or contacting people.

There are so many things that go into planing a wedding it is impossible to stay on top of everything so offer to lessen the load.

Remember the bride-to-be will be more stressed as the date approaches, keep her calm and organize an all-inclusive spa pamper day to ease her nerves.

The Don’ts

It is your responsibility to show up to every rehearsal don’t be lazy even if you have already been through it all. Some brides tend to find the worst bridesmaid dresses they can find and it’s not your place to say no.

How to be the best bridemaid

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Hopefully this won’t happen to you but still never complain about the dress she choose. The biggest sin a bridesmaid can do it try to be the star of the show.

The worst part is some don’t even realize they are trying to take the spotlight so if you see one of the other bridesmaids is being impolite pull her aside and stop her.

The Wedding

Imagine yourself as a chaperone you are going to be one of those people who are going to make sure nothing goes wrong.

Keep an eye out for drunk guest because they forget what’s appropriate some try to grab the mike and tell embarrassing stories and they can stumble and fall causing the bride to hold her head and sigh.

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